Sometimes life asks more of us than our usual ways of thinking and doing can offer. Something feels unclear, pressured, or stuck, and it's not obvious where to go next. Or you see what needs to happen, but the capacity to meet it isn't fully available.
These moments ask for a different kind of attention. Through embodied inquiry, contemplative practice, and precise discernment, I help people stay close enough to their experience to sense what's actually happening. And to learn to think and act from there.
What often emerges is that the places where we feel most stuck are not just some obstacle to get past, but where something essential has been waiting.
I work with people who sense there is more available to them than their current way of being allows. A depth already present, asking to be met and lived from.
In these sessions, we stay close to how you're actually experiencing what you're going through. How it lives in your body, your emotions, your sense of things. Not just what you think about it. Met with the right quality of attention, patterns that have long felt fixed begin to loosen. The difficulty you bring stops being something to get past. It becomes a doorway -- into a capacity, a creativity, a way of meeting life that is already there but hasn't yet had room to speak.
My role is to help you listen to that 'more'. I accompany you as you release what holds this back, and stay present as it comes into fuller expression.
This work is grounded in the Aletheia Unfoldment Method, together with my broader background in contemplative practice and embodied inquiry. It brings together psychological work with parts and patterns, somatic inquiry, and the kind of presence-based exploration usually found only in deep contemplative practice. This means we can work with unusual range and precision, from habits and emotions to existential questions and deeper dimensions of experience, without collapsing any of them.
People come to this work when facing decisions, transitions, creative blocks, questions of direction, or the sense that something important is asking for attention. Many are carrying significant responsibility — in work, family, social initiatives, creative practice — and want to meet it with more of themselves. What changes is rarely limited to the difficulty they came with. It shifts how they hold themselves, their relationships, and the situations they're trying to meet.
As more analytical and mechanical work is automated, what becomes most valuable is the capacity to clarify what matters. That capacity is relational, perceptual, and embodied: sensing what a situation actually requires, holding complexity without collapsing it, acting from something more than a model.
In the Collective Futures MSc programme at the University of Amsterdam, which I co-design and co-lead, students, researchers, and societal partners collaborate across disciplines on issues such as democratic resilience, climate adaptation, and PFAS pollution.
This is the kind of environment I work to create more broadly. I work with universities and organisations to design curricula, workshops, and research processes that bring together systems thinking, problem framing, prioritization, and embodied dialogical practices. So that people can draw on both careful analysis and lived experience to make grounded decisions in ambiguous, value-laden situations.
Sound, improvisation, and embodied listening run through my work in ways that aren't always visible on a page like this. I collaborate with two collectives working at the intersection of sound art, embodied inquiry, and artistic research, often through residencies and community-based experimentation that sometimes extend into mutual aid.
These collaborations shape and are shaped by my other areas of practice, especially where listening matters more than quick conclusions. Past work in sound art and interactive installations is documented here.
Alongside collaborative projects, I make music and practice improvisational movement as ongoing forms of inquiry and play.
My work is shaped by study across embodied inquiry, philosophy, crossdisciplinary science, contemplative practice, and psychology. What drew me into this territory was my own experience of how much shifts when we learn to listen to the body's wisdom and stay with what's actually happening rather than managing it from a distance. That remains the thread through everything I do.
This work draws on the following training and study:
Training in Levels 1–2 of the Aletheia Unfoldment Method, originated by Steve March. The approach integrates parts-oriented dialogue from Internal Family Systems, felt-sense exploration in the tradition of Eugene Gendlin, and presence-based inquiry informed by A. H. Almaas' Ridhwan school. What I find most powerful about this work is how it holds psychological precision and contemplative depth as one movement, allowing transformation that is both deeply grounded and genuinely lasting. A detailed exploration of the method is available in this paper.
Mentored by Prof. Donata Schoeller through Embodied Critical Thinking and Understanding, deepening an orientation toward felt-sense inquiry and philosophical precision.
Certified facilitator in Effortless Mindfulness (Levels 1–3), an approach developed by Loch Kelly combining Buddhist meditation practices from the Dzogchen and Mahamudra traditions with parts-based psychology grounded in Internal Family Systems.
MSc in Creative Intelligence & Technology, Leiden Institute of Advanced Computer Science. BSc in Liberal Arts and Sciences with a major in Ecology, University of Amsterdam. I also teach and co-lead the Collective Futures MSc programme at the University of Amsterdam.
If something here speaks to where you are, I'd welcome a conversation. The first step is a free 30-minute discovery call — a chance to meet, share what's bringing you here, and sense whether there's a fit. From there, we can do an initial session together, and then decide how we want to continue.
One-to-one sessions are offered on a sliding scale of €85–€125, with some flexibility for those who need it. I trust you to choose what fits your situation.
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